9 Watch your body language. People who look illatease make others uncomfortable. Act confident and comfortable, even when you’re not.
注意身体语言。如果你看上去很拘束，别人也会感觉不舒服。装也要装得自信和坦然一点。
10 Let strangers interrupt you. They’re not being rude, they’re assisting you. Let them speak, and wait to be prompted before continuing your story. It’s usually a good sign that they are actually listening to you.
允许陌生人插话。别把这样的举动看作粗鲁无礼，他们其实是在帮你。让他们发言，然后等他们给你提示，再继续你的话题。这通常是个好迹象，说明他们确实在听你说话。
11 If all else fails, just talk about the weather, which always gets people riled up (unless you live in Florida or Southern California).
如果全都行不通，干脆聊聊常把大伙儿惹毛的天气吧(此条不适用于佛罗里达或者南加利福尼亚的居民)。
12 And have a few exit lines ready so, if needs be, you can both gracefully move on. For example, “I need to check in with a client over there,” “I skipped lunch today, so I need to grab a quick bite,” etc.
准备一些随时能结束谈话的借口，这样在必要的时候，双方都可以从容地离开。比如，“我需要帮一个客户去登记入住”，“我今天没吃午饭，所以我得赶紧去吃点东西”。
As long as you avoid anything personal, political, or controversial – at least during first encounters – and know which questions to ask, you’ll be talking the talk of certified socialite. Also, read Dale Carnegie’s classic, How To Win Friends and Influence People, for a great read on this topic.
只要闭口不谈任何私人、政治或者富有争议性的话题(至少第一次见面时不说)，并且知道该问什么问题，你就一定能像社会名流一般侃侃而谈啦。还有，读一读戴尔卡耐基的经典之作《如何赢得友谊和影响他人》吧，这绝对是一本帮你完善社交技巧的绝佳读物。
